Thursday, January 20, 2011

Some 'do's and don'ts

Follow these 'do’s and don’ts to become successful:

'Do’s

• Value mistakes as necessary feedbacks for improvement.
• Love without conditions or expectations.
• Forgive others as everyone acts according to their current level of consciousness and understanding.
• Help others with the understanding that ultimately they are responsible for their life.
• Make a conscious choice to be free. Hold your freedom as a priority which can’t be compromised.
• Take full responsibility for your state of mind. Value your inner peace more than winning or proving your point.
• Commit yourself to awareness of your inner dialogue and states of mind.
• Prioritize well- being over negativity.
• Value your energy and conserve it by not wasting it on anger, fear, jealousy, hatred and negativity.
• Do your best to face challenges and fulfill responsibilities.
• Understand the difference between what exists in thought and what exists in reality.

Don’ts

• Don’t be satisfied with a superficial change of behavior. Make an inner change which is the source of all behavior.
• Don’t let your emotions be controlled by others.
• Don’t engage in self-defeating behavior.
• Don’t let anger guide your hand.
• Don’t let fear inhibit your actions.
• Don’t let desires govern your life.
• Don’t let attachments bind you.
• Don’t cheat yourself by wasting your time.
• Do not put yourself in a box. Your limited identity is self-defined and self-imposed.
• Don’t carry a strict idea of yourself to which you must conform.
• Don’t make any comparisons with others, as you are neither above nor below anyone.
• Don’t try to control or possess others.
• Don’t depend upon others for validation or approval.
• Don’t wait for an external authority to tell you what is right and what is wrong. You are your own authority.
• Don’t attempt to appear different than you are, regardless of who you are around.
• Don’t judge others or attempt to change them. Allow them the freedom to be themselves.
• Don’t allow your past to interfere with your present; learn from it and let it go.
• Don’t react to situations and people.
• Don’t run from your problems or put off responsibilities.


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